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Habit4:Think win-win
Exploring ways of balancing courage with consideration;making emotional deposits
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| How do you build effective relationships with people? | By working for their benefit as well as your own. |
| Which takes more courage and consideration, win-win or no deal? | Neither, they both take high courage and consideration. |
| What does making emotional deposits in other peoples bank accounts do? | This makes it easier to build new or stronger friendships. |
| What is an EBA? | Emotional Bank Account |
| Is it better to have low courage and high consideration, or high courage with low consideration? | the ladder, because having low courage gets you stepped on which ultimately gets you nowhere. |
| How can you find out what are emotional deposits and withdrawals in a relationship? | Pay attention to their reaction of the deposits you invest in them and look for feedback. |
| Are small acts of kindness an example of an emotional deposit? | Yes |
| Are promises important to the EBA? | yes, people who break promises are making a withdrawal from their EBA with that person. |
| Is setting clear expectations a good investment into the EBA? | yes |
| Are learning to forgive and apologize considered a withdrawal from the EBA? | No |