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Five People Part 3
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| How did Eddie's father damage Eddie through neglect? | Eddie's father would take him to Ruby Pier and ditch him with someone else when he went to get drunk |
| How did Eddie's father damage Eddie through violence? | Eddie's father would beat Eddie and Joe with a belt after he lost his money gambling while he was drunk |
| How did Eddie's father damage Eddie through denial of affection? | When Eddie's father was proud of Eddie for his athletic ability and strength, he would never tell him or show him how he felt. |
| How did Eddie's father damage Eddie through silence? | After Eddie refused to let his father beat him by deflecting a punch, Eddie's father refused to speak to him again |
| Ruby wished that Emile had never built Ruby Pier because | They lost their fortune in the fire. Emile couldn't walk for 3 years, and his spirit was broken |
| Eddie thought that his father died because | He had fallen into the ocean while drunk and got sick after that |
| Eddie's father wanted to kill Mickey because | he tried to rape Eddie's mother |
| Eddie's father wanted to save Mickey because | he helped Eddie's father get a job, he gave them money to feed Eddie, he took friendships seriously, he was a loyal friend |
| Eddie's father died from | getting sick with pneumonia after, being loyal to his friend and saving Mickey, and the damp from hanging out the window |
| Before Eddie's father died | he called the names of those he loved out the window |
| Eddie took what to remind him of his father? | a pack of cards |
| The third lesson is | holding on to anger hurts the angry person because it destroys them on the inside |
| The most destructive words someone can say to boys according to Joe Ehrmann is | Be a man |
| Alexithymia is | the inability to express your feelings and emotions in words |
| 3 lies our culture teaches boys about being a man are | you must be strong and athletic, you must be sexually active with many women, you must be economically successful |
| Eddie has to learn the third lesson because | He has been angry with his father his entire life. Eddie hates him and blames him for all of Eddie's disappointments in life |
| Eddie's nightmares are recurring. The subject that haunts him is | not being able to save the shadow in the fire |
| Ruby knew Eddie's family because | Emile was in the hospital bed next to Eddie's father, and she was there visiting Emile while Eddie's mother was there with his father |
| According to Joe Ehrmann, men's hidden depression results in | isolation and an inability to form deep relationships, substance abuse to numb their feelings, and violence to release their anger |
| Metaphor is | is when you compare two unlike things directly without using the words like or as to reveal something about a person, place, thing, or an idea. |
| Eddie wanted his father's death to be | heroic to combat the commonness of his life |
| Eddie believes that his father died because | he was drunk and fell into the ocean |
| Eddie's father died because | he was weak and vulnerable after saving Mickey from drowning in the ocean |
| Personification is | when an author gives non-human things human characteristics |
| Alexithymia affects what percentage of the male population in the US? | 80% |
| Socialization is | the process of learning what is acceptable within a society and culture. |
| A social mandate is | a command to act in a certain sort of way based on how society thinks a person should be |
| Male Covert Depression results in what 3 things | Isolation from close emotional relationships bottling up one's feelings, numbing problems with substance abuse, and acting our anger and frustration with violence |
| Lie #1 | Men should be strong, big, and have athletic ability |
| Lie #2 | Men should use women for sexual gratification |
| Lie #3 | A man makes a lot of money, has a lot of possessions, and has a powerful prestigious job |
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