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Habit 4 flashcards
Term | Definition |
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Win -Lose | If your high on courage and low on consideration , your always trying to get ahead of others or be better than other people your proud and cant win unless other people lose |
Lose-win | Your insecure . you are not brave enough to stick up for yourself. when having a victim mentality , always looking for sympathy |
Lose-Lose | " if im going down, you are going down with me" A person who gets revenge and envy and criticize other and put other people down and often yourself too |
Win- win or No deal | Your ready to walk away before someone loses including yourself |
EBAs Emotional bank account | if you are trying to meet new people and friends or keep a old one think about your relationship as a bank account but in this case emotional . Deposit and withdrawal being helpful and kind is deposit , being hurtful and rude is a withdrawal |
Small acts of kindness | Take the initiative , be kind to others and create connections |
keep promises | make good on the words you say, be careful before saying " i promise" if you don't end up doing what you said you was going to do |
keep confidence | when someone's shares something with you in confidence, keep it that way . be careful about what you spread around about other people |
Be loyal to the absent | avoid gossiping or backbiting , Stick up for people |
Set clear expectations | don't leave things fuzzy follow through on what's expected |
Apologize | If you are wrong admit it now. don't make the situation worst |
Forgive | learn to forgive and forget so you wont keep hurting yourself the way you was hurt |