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Habit 4
Think Win-Win
Question | Answer |
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Win-Win | Basic principle of successful living: Unless other people win with you, you don't truly win. |
Main Point | I can build effective relationships with people by working for their benefit as well as my own. |
Courage and Consideration Matrix | Win-Lose Win-Win or No Deal Lose-Lose Lose-Win |
Win-Lose | You're eager to please and reluctant to stand up for yourself |
Lose-Lose | You don't care if other people lose, nor do you have the courage to stand up for yourself. |
Win-Lose | You go for the Win-Lose every time. You're bold but cold- unsympathetic, inconsiderate, unkind |
Win-Win or No Deal | You're ready to walk away before someone loses, including yourself |
Ways you can make deposits in other EBA's | Find out what a deposit is for the other person, small acts of kindness, keep promises, keep confidence, be loyal to the absent, set clear expectations, apologize, forgive |
Took you to lunch at a fast food restaurant so you could talk about a school project you were working on | Neutral |
Asked you to attend a class and take notes while they went away on a pleasure trip | Withdrawal |
Noticed you were having problems on a math assignment and pointed out what you were doing wrong | Deposit |
Gave you opera tickets for your birthday | Deposit |
Posted Happy Birthday message to you a month after your birthday | Deposit |
Rules for making deposits | A deposit is only a deposit if the other person sees it as one. |
Rules for making deposits | It can take one or more deposits to make up for one withdrawal |