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Ger. End of Life
Geriatrics End of Life and Family Meetings
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| Important questions to ask with patients | What is it you understand about your illness? What do you want? What are your goals? Now that we know this bad news, what are your goals? |
| Palliative care | What do you do when you have an incurable problem, pain, sx management, transitions, |
| Introduce the topic of consultation | “To best meet some of the goals we’ve been discussing…I would like to have some consultants from the Palliative Care Team visit with you” |
| Introduce the topic of consultation | “They can help with the symptom you have been experiencing…They are also good at helping your family deal with all of the changes brought on by your illness…” |
| Before meeting the family, consider | review hx, tx options, prognosis, who should be there? Ask the nurse, chaplain about the family situation. who is going to lead? the meeting before the meeting |
| The setting | chairs in a circle or round table, cell phones and pagers off, sit down, door closed, if in the patient room: position yourself closer to the patient and further from the door. |
| Establish the goal of the meeting | “Today, I’d like to make sure that everyone understands how (the patient) is doing and answer questions you may have” Ask family what their goal for the meeting is |
| Establish ground rules | Is there a time limit? Everyone will have a chance to ask questions Acknowledge that this is a difficult time/situation |
| Questions to open the meeting with | what do you understand about your condition? Whta have the doctors told you? How do feel things are going? |
| In conflict | respond to emotion first!!! Then later come back if anything needs to be clarified, "this is what I understand". Acknowledge, "I can see how hard this is for you." |
| NURSE acronym | Name the emotion, Understand, Respect, Support, Explore |
| Name ex: | I can see how distressing this is |
| Understand ex: | I can imagine that this must be very difficult |
| Respect ex: | You are asking a lot of really good questions. I can see that you want to respect your dad's wishes |
| Support ex: | we will continue to talk and answer your questions. I will check in with you tomorrow. Or, this is my shift, and this is who will be taking over when I am not here |
| Explore ex: | tell me more about what you are thinking |
| Good Q | Has anyone in your family ever used hospice and what was there experience? Also, if you're grandfather could speak for himself about ____ (condition or tx) what would he say? |
| Be conscious of whether faith is important to the person and if it is, | invite their minister, or pastor or whomever they are getting spiritual counsel from |