Question | Answer |
Top Down | Husband's position: king
Leadership style : Lord
Goal in mind: personal benefits
Effects on marriage: winner/loser
Model: traditional model |
50/50 | husband's position: partner
Leadership style: leaderless
Goal in mind:sameness/differences to maintain balance
Model: identical model |
side by side | husband's position: head
Leadership style: response/sacrifice
goal in mind: onenenss
effects on marriage: harmony, healthy, happy
model: biblical model
atmosphere: freedom |
Core roles in biblical model | Servant leader, servant lover |
core concerns in biblical model | learn what is important to one another |
servant lover: | wife/helper, nurturing, title only given to God and woman |
servant leader | Husband/head, honor, responsibility, protection, provider |
Core responses biblical model | empower you mate's role |
wife, empowering does not mean... | submission is demanded but should be a gift from the wife. Does not enable wrongdoing but cultivates right-doing |
Husband needs to... | show appreciation and realize that she is loved, honor and praise |
comptetiont | losing heart for both parties |
core concerns biblical model- | meet your mate's deepest needs |
wife gives to the husband: | Companionship, admiration, support, physical response |
Husband gives to the wife: | Companionship, security, significance, emotional response |
Why do it the biblical way? | The world has tried to recreate this and has caused devastation (40% of homes are without father) |
This way positions the man... | and woman for what they do best |
Rather than compete they... | compliment one another |
The strength of a nation derives from... | the integrity of the home-Confucious |
Creates an environment that is | best for the healthy development of children |
Honors God's word and... | prospers and advances society as a whole |
approximately what percentage of face to face communication is non-verbal? | 65% |
challenges in relationships | time |
successful friendships require | commitment |
characters of successful friendships | companionship, respect, acceptance, help, trust, loyalty, mutuality, reciprocity |
degrees of intimacy: liking | intimacy only |
deg. infatuation | passion only |
deg. romantic | intimacy and passin |
deg fatuous | passion and commitment |
deg Empty | commitment |
deg companionate | intimacy and commitment |
deg consumate | intimacy, commitment, passion |
Mainstream smoke comes from smokers, side stream smoke comes from | cigarette |
Reinforcement | the behavior produces a pleasureable state or releives a negative one |
Deciding when to become a parent | physical health and age, financial situation (8900 year) stability of relationship |
Moather | examine pre-existing health conditions ie age, lifestyle choices and change prescriptive drugs |
All major organs are formed by | 5 weeks |
at .2% BAC you are | unable to function |
.35% BAC can be | lethal |